On August 14th…
Exactly 2.7 months ago, my angel and I got together. It’s our 31st month and it feels like we just started.
Since the time I started pursuing her to this day, there hasn’t been a significant fight or anything that would force us apart. It’s like we’re meant to be for each other.
It’s a weird thing because we’re both from completely different backgrounds, and somehow, despite our differences, we connected and have been living together since the beginning of our relationship.
But why am I telling you this?
Here’s the lesson…
About 3 years ago, I started visualizing her in my life… in all kinds of situations. I would sit down, sometimes for 30 minutes, sometimes for an hour, every day.
Anything from traveling to remote places to hiking mountains and swimming in lakes, to living in a house together. Every spicy, kinky pleasure you can imagine… you bet, I dreamt about it.
And guess what?
It happened.
We’re celebrating 2.7 months together.
We live together in a house.
We travel 2-3 times a year.
We play with each other like two horny teenagers.
We have fun together.
And so, here’s to say…
If you can visualize it, you can have it.
You must have heard that saying before…
I believe it’s true, but here is something you must understand…
You can’t just visualize and hope for the best…
You’ll have great dreams but unless you lift your butt cheeks off the couch and start doing the necessary work to get you where you want to be or the life you want to have, nothing will happen.
So… (and this is the key), instead of visualizing the green pastures and hoping for the best, that one day everything will fall into place, visualize all the hard work that you’ll have to do.
Make a plan, and every day after your important visualization session, accomplish something that day.
Learn how to manage yourself!
If you have bad habits, focus on that first. Change them.
From morning to evening, there is plenty of time, even if you’re working full time, I can guarantee you can find an hour or two to work on your dream.
Whatever the dream is…
Remember, small actions every day will pile up… eventually becoming big things.
But anyway…
Just sharing what I would do and am actually doing right now as I’m building my base online… and learning all these skills like copywriting, social media, graphic design, and how to become a better human being.
It takes time… perhaps a whole life.
But it starts with knowing what you want.